A peaceful helping heart – So that others can benefit and grow

helping hands photo: Helping Hands helping_hands.jpg I’ve spoken to Wendy (not her real name) few days ago, after a business networking meeting. This conversation was an informal one, at a hotel lobby, standing and sharing. She is a devout Christian lady and is married with grown children. She was diagnosed with cancer just couple years ago, and the doctors gave her 6 months to live. She surpassed the doctors estimate timeline. She does take medications to relieve her pain and coping with cancer.

She started few business networking groups in Las Vegas area, to help the home business and small business owners to network and interact with each other for referrals, improve their businesses via workshops and weekly networking meetings to make money. She herself is a business owner. The core of her vision and goal is to help others succeed by giving them tools. This is a very noble thought and action. She herself is struck with cancer and in pain, and at the same time helping others in home business and small business owners succeed. She also takes into consideration of not burdening the business owners with yearly fees or membership to make profit for herself. Any revenue she makes from networking groups,  she contributes half of it to the church or other helping organization.

She also shared with me at an another event, she is not afraid of dying, and that too expressing with a smile. She even said, she wants me to officiate at her funeral. But, I told her, she will live a long life. (I was surprised when she mentioned me to officiate at her funeral). Myself being a minister, who listens and shares with others on issues of marriage, relationships and death, and everyday living concerns, the homeless/canned food drive, senior assistance living visits, etc, have to give credit to Wendy for her determination to live humbly, peacefully, praising God,  and a strong desire to help others so that they can succeed in their business endeavors.She amazes me. She is very positive in her outlook on life and she smiles quite a bit. She is a messenger and dug deep into her heart to help others move forward.

God bless you Wendy, and I pray for your well being.

Peace and Light!


Rev. Ernie Martin, The Reverend of Love


The Universal Spirituality of Love – My ministry by Rev. Ernie Martin

Image  Beliefs:

.    Each one of us has the energy/spirit within that can help us heal, improve our lives and do good for others and ourselves.

.    We have the ability to connect creating a stronger sense of community which strengthens each of us as individuals.

.    You do not lack anything. You have everything you need within. That unseen power, your faith can be revealed and brought forward to empower you and manifest what you visualize, imagine or want.

.    Organized religions are man-made. All of them come from a defensive, “mine is better than yours” place, Emphasizing division and isolation between people and nations. Instead, we should come from a place of love accepting and embracing others treating them with “The Golden Rule.”


.    Each one of us are blessed with gifts, talents and life experiences. When they are shared they will help others and help ourselves by releasing and bringing out the messiah, the messenger within – We can enrich our own lives and enrich the lives of others, when we share with love and openness.

.    We are all connected in one global society, through our vibrational level. We can’t SEE this energy, this vibration. However, there is no such thing as wasted energy. When we send out our flowing, vibrational energy of love and act upon it – we experience the benefits of the results. Like healing, abundance, friendship and care for the entire planet.

Image  One way to apply this vibrational energy of love is through prayer and meditation. Our prayer or mantra is a direct communication with God, Universal Love, Source or Spirit.

When we meditate and get still we are listening to that quite voice within everyone of us has it, that voice is God, Spirit, and always provides perfect answers.

When you come from an open space of love, there are no walls or barriers, only through hate does war happen- whether it’s between individuals, family members, a community, a nation, or our entire planet.

We have free will to make our own choices.

Instead, we should acknowledge and respect the loving nature of others. Every person has that core of love within, even if they are not currently connected to it.

The only way people who hate can come to a loving place is to come to an awareness of the Universal Essence of goodness they have within.

.    The drive for power in a negative way comes from insecurity and fear of loss or domination. When you come from a place of loving openness, and let your light shine, you become more naturally powerful and people will be eager to follow you, love you and respect you.

.    The path to happiness and joy is discovered when you stop allowing yourself to be bombarded with outer things. It is easy to become addicted to our desires stemming from insecurity and fear. When we break free of our addictions we experience true joy and inner happiness.

.    When we experience this inner happiness we want for nothing and we call it bliss or “heaven on earth.” This is expressed in “The Lord’s prayer” when we say “On earth as it is in heaven.”

   An important part of our journey here on earth is to discover, appreciate and grow to love our authentic selves. When we do this not only does our craving to be like others disappear, but we know we are loved for our true selves by others because that is all they see.

My many thanks to my wife Denise Michaels, and my friend Joe Tasso, who both sat with me last summer and brain stormed with me to put my ministry on paper.


Rev. Ernie Martin, The Reverend of Love


Ernie Martin is an ordained Interfaith Non-Denominational minister, and known as The Reverend of  Love. He respects and honors all spiritual belief systems that embrace love and kindness.